Whenever there are two or more people sharing a commonplace there’s bound to be some issues. Whether the issue is very serious or rather unimportant there will come a time when uncomfortable conversations will need to take place. And this is difficult. It’s important that everyone find a happy medium and the issues are fixed, yet you can’t have too much conflict because these people will still have to work with each other even after the conversation has taken place.
It’s important that we each set boundaries in the workplace. They help define who we are in relationships and how we relate to the world around us. By having boundaries that are known to others you can prevent a lot of personal upset and help keep out issues. It’s important, however, that we make healthy boundaries in the workplace because they define your personal limits as well as those of the people you interact with professionally.
Though it may be tough to do, when someone oversteps your boundaries or inters your personal territory that makes you uncomfortable it’s important to speak up. Many will try to avoid the conflict at hand and instead will find their boundaries being stepped on repeatedly. Do not avoid having difficult conversations due to fear. Be professional and be prompt to let others know when they have crossed your boundaries.
One of the most important benefits of healthy confrontations is that brings people together to help understand one another better. This also helps other respect each other a bit more, since they can see where the other person is coming from and get to know their person beliefs and values better. Ultimately, people will succeed in resolving their issues and this helps to build trust and strengthen their connection. Problems need to be brought to light to help improve interactions in the long run and reduce the likelihood of a blow-out.
Healthy confrontations can help individuals grow relation-ally, personally, emotionally and professionally because it makes us more aware of our own behavior and how it affects those that surround us.
